First Gay Experience. Other. Ok, so I'd like to start this off by saying that I'm a bisexual 15 year old male, and that I have never considered myself gay. When I was 1, my mother and a woman who we'll name Lauren met. Lauren had a son, almost exactly my age. So from a very early time in my life, I have known this boy, who we'll call James. More information: Perry N. Halkitis et al, Age of Sexual Debut among Young Gay-identified Sexual Minority Men: The P18 Cohort Study, The Journal of Sex Research (2020).DOI: /